Words

Although having known this most of my life, it has become abundantly clear to me over the past couple of weeks that words are extremely powerful tools...weapons too often...but also the source of hope, inspiration, encouragement, and love. But alone, they are simply that...words...lifeless unless accompanied by some type of action.

Words we share with others help to clarify our own thoughts and feelings, but also do the same thing for their recipients. Pretty obvious concept, right? But how many of us are careless with our words, giving no thought to how they may in fact impact others? Lately, I have often found myself in this situation.

Over the years, I have learned to measure and weigh my words in the work place, with family members, and even with friends, but once in awhile, in a very human way, I slip up...say something inappropriate...maybe I go too far with a joke or with my opinion on a given situation and I end up hurting those I care for and love....

In an effort to right the wrong, or do damage control, I always revert to attempting to express what I think my true feelings or intentions might be, but sometimes it takes more than that. Even those two words that are so difficult for many to utter, "I'm sorry," mean nothing when there is no change in action--no clear demonstration that others can take stock in your words. It is in these moments that I realize words alone, although very powerful indeed, are not enough....action must be present for words to be taken seriously. I often talk about craving authenticity and appreciating action, so honestly these reflections go hand-in hand with who I am. Now I just have to remind myself to always act in this way...somehow become super-human! (haha)

So, here's my dilemma....are my "over-the-top, sarcastic or coy" words really careless, or are they a "safe" way, an "easy" way for me to express some kind of truth that might be too hard to express or act upon otherwise? Sooner or later, time will reveal the truth behind these comments, remarks, attitudes, etc. and when it does, I better be ready to act so that I can remain as authentic as I believe myself to be!

I think I might have to come back to this post for some after thoughts...but I want to leave it as raw as I am experiencing it right now....no hidden meaning behind those words at all!